In the world of weddings, there’s more to a blissful marriage than just a fairytale celebration. Enter REDHEADREVEAL®, a renowned relationship coach whose premarital course, “TO DO BEFORE I DO™,” transforms how couples prepare for their journey down the aisle. In this exclusive Q&A, dive into the wisdom and insights REDHEADREVEAL® shares with couples to build a strong foundation for a lifetime of love. From communication strategies to handling conflicts, scroll on and discover how this course can help you and your partner embark on a marriage that’s not only magical but also resilient and everlasting.
Weddings in Houston: Tell us a little bit about yourself.
REDHEADREVEAL®: I am Jenn Pinkerton, a psychotherapist, high-performance coach, sexologist, writer, speaker, host of the REDHEADREVEAL® podcast, private practice owner of Pinkerton Psychotherapy, and Doctoral Candidate in Clinical Sexology. As a change agent, I help people reveal their connectedness within their relationships and sexuality, understanding the root causes of beliefs and behaviors that hold them back from success. I assist them in returning to the person they were born to be before they were limited by trauma.
WiH: Tell us about the premarital course TO DO BEFORE I DO.™
RHR: TO DO BEFORE I DO™ is a self-paced online premarital course for seriously dating, engaged, newlywed, and married couples. Our course addresses core topics to build a strong foundation and a healthy marriage.
WiH: What topics do you discuss in your premarital course, and how is the content structured?
RHR: TO DO BEFORE I DO™ addresses communication, trust and transparency, attachment styles, money talk, sex and intimacy, values, traditions, and beliefs through a self-paced online course.
WiH: How does the course cater to each couple’s unique needs and dynamics?
RHR: TO DO BEFORE I DO™ is designed to be flexible and adaptable to meet each couple’s unique needs and dynamics. Through personalized worksheets and exercises, this premarital/marital course aims to address each couple’s specific challenges and strengths. Whether it’s communication issues, conflict resolution, intimacy concerns, or any other aspect of the relationship, TO DO BEFORE I DO™ offers tools and strategies to help couples navigate their journey toward a stronger and more fulfilling partnership.
WiH: How does the TO DO BEFORE I DO™ online course help couples improve their communication skills and navigate conflicts effectively?
RHR: TO DO BEFORE I DO™ is designed to enhance couples’ communication skills and equip them with effective conflict navigation strategies. One of the key components of the course is the RECOVERY™ Method, which is specifically aimed at resolving conflicts in a constructive and empathetic manner. By integrating the RECOVERY™ Method into daily interactions, couples enrolled in TO DO BEFORE I DO™ can expect to see an improvement in how they communicate and resolve conflicts, leading to a relationship where they thrive.
WiH: In what ways does your course offer intimacy and connection between partners?
RHR: TO DO BEFORE I DO™ focuses on enhancing intimacy and connection between partners by addressing physical and emotional intimacy. Navigating this course together will encourage couples to share their thoughts, feelings, fears, and aspirations openly while reinforcing the importance of quality time. Partners can develop a deeper connection by fostering a safe space for vulnerability.
WiH: What long-term benefits can couples expect from completing the premarital course?
RHR: Completing TO DO BEFORE I DO™ offers couples a range of long-term benefits. This includes strengthened communication and conflict resolution, which form the foundation of a healthy relationship. Couples can also expect enhanced intimacy and connection as they learn to support each other more effectively. Additionally, this course helps couples clarify their values, expectations, and goals for the future, leading to greater alignment. By equipping couples with practical tools and strategies, TO DO BEFORE I DO™ empowers them to navigate challenges and sustain a fulfilling partnership for the long haul.
